Stress is real for many people
including myself. This week
I had a fellow nursing classmate and team member curse me out when I asked her
had she done her work on our group project. She hadn’t made any effort so she decided to drop the F-bomb in our clinical
conference meeting about how ranted about how she was NOT going to do anything.
This was stressful and in this case
unnecessary. It was even more
stressful because other students, her peers, just sat there and said
nothing. Basically, not one
student had worked on the assigned worksheets for our project plan except
myself so I was the “bad guy.”
Perhaps, this is the difference between being a 40+ yr old student and a
20-something who would rather wait until the last minute or pray that someone
else will pick up their slack.
Sometimes stress is good and natural. It can motivate you, drive you to excel or achieve a goal. It occurs when we
start a new job, buy a new home or plan a wedding. It increases our mental focus and helps us to concentrate,
increase our strength and stamina.
Unfortunately there is negative stress too. Negative stress due
to strain at work, family, relationships, unrealistic expectations, inability
to accept uncertainty and negative self-talk can be potentially harmful.
Constant stress in one’s life increases a stress
hormone, cortisol. Cortisol makes the heart pound faster, blood pressures go up, increase weight gain, increase nail biting, irritability and depression.
So what can we do
about managing stress?
Exercise is a good remedy. No pills required.
·
Exercise increases endorphins, the brain’s “
feel-good” neurotransmitters making us feel happy and a sense of well-being.
·
Exercise improves mood and sleep that may be
disrupted by depression, anxiety and stress.
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Exercise of any type: swimming, jogging, bicycling, yoga, tai chi, walking, and
weightlifting for as little as 20 to 30 minutes can relieve stress.
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Exercise with others can help one forget about
life’s problems and share some laughs.
I am grateful for the four evenings I
spent this week swimming, running, stretching and spinning. A little sweat is a
good form of stress relief. There is nothing I can do to stop stressors, but I
can do my best to manage them.
~StayFitt
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