Solo- Never alone-Feb. 27, 2016

Indoor Tri day in February 2016 was great fun. As a treat for my efforts during the November-January, I signed up for an Indoor Tri at a local gym.

To keep my anxiety in check, I simply though of this event as a workout with friends.
My time slot was at 2pm, but I arrived early and was given an earlier time slot at 12:30 pm.

I met a wonderful couple who noticed I arrived alone and they warmly greeted me at the pool. We completed the 10 min swim, 30 min bike and 20 min run together.

I believe the universe conspires to bring wonderful people in our oaths when we need them. Though we may arrive at an event by ourselves, we are not alone. The fear of arriving at event alone or traveling, dining, shopping etc. can impede growth and opportunity. I have found that when you are willing to do something alone then you really want it and muster a new kind of personal fortitude that groups can not offer.

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